Sometimes the gift we’re reading isn’t fully visible yet, even to ourselves. If you grew up in a home where you were needed to be something specific — the responsible one, the peacemaker, the helper — you may have spent years developing someone else’s gift out of love or survival. What you’re seeing here is your design. What you’ve been living might be an adaptation. If something feels slightly off, that gap is worth exploring. That’s exactly what a conversation is for.